Men’s support Group 14-11-2024 6pm-7pm

In attendance

Helen Stacey (leader), John Dray (volunteer counsellor), Andy, Dougie

  • Helen outlined the ground-rules for the group
  • Introductions
    • Everyone had an opportunity to introduce themselves

What do you want to achieve?

  • Find out how to support each other
    • How to work at self-support each day
  • How do people currently support themselves?
    • Reflective space
    • Activities
    • Meeting with friends
    • Hobbies
  • How to fill the ‘vacuum’ after counselling
    • Stabilization techniques
      • The trauma stabilisation workbook is being renewed.
        • Perhaps send this to members of the group?
  • Do people want an all male group, or to be in the lived experience group (LEG)?
    • Among the attendees there was a feeling that they could join the LEG, but this was a very small sample size.

Other resources/Thoughts

  • Carolyn Spring has LOTS of resources. She is mentioned on the New Pathways website
    • carolynspring.com/free-downloads has lots of useful resources for free.
    • Would it be possible to have Carolyn Spring come to run a course for New Pathways?
  • Mental Health Show
    • Would it be possible for New Pathways to be involved with the show?
    • mhwshow.co.uk
    • 16th May 2025
  • Would it be possible for New Pathways to showcase the Client Creations section of the website as an inspiration for survivors of abuse?
  • Would it be possible for the New Pathways website to explain what counselling is?
    • People expressed that when they disclosed they were going to counselling people assumed they were mad, sick or dangerous. A section on the website might explain who counselling is for, what it is, and help to dispel this myth.